No one's judging...

That moment when you forget your earphone’s not plug into the computer and plays the music out loud in the library and everyone turns to look at you…

That moment when you forget to turn your phone to silence and it suddenly rings in the middle of the class and you frantically search your bag to try to turn it off…

That moment when your brain blanks out during a presentation and forgets what to say next…

That moment when the teacher calls on you to answer a question but you have nothing to say so that you could only stutter out nonsense…

We all have countless embarrassing moments in our life

At that moment, we just want to dig a hole to hide, wanting to kill ourselves, thinking that others must be judging you hard and are laughing inside.

But is that really true?

When you see others in the same situation

would you make fun or even laugh at them?

No, the truth is you don’t really care.

You might stare at them for a moment and go back to your own business

You might even be glad that the teacher didn’t call on you instead

So think back to those moments of embarrassment and those moments when you want to kill yourselves

No one has the time to look down on you just because of a simple mistake; let along be bored enough to judge you and make fun of you.

The only absurd thing is

You are only 18

And because of a small obstacle you think that your life has no future

You are only 19

And because you see someone posted their lovey-dovey picture on Instagram you think that you will be lonely forever and that you will never be loved

You are only 20

And because of a few mistake and struggles you think that the road ahead is only filled with darkness and has no hope

Before someone can even give a reaction, we are often too quick to judge ourselves

Most of the time, the only one making our life miserable is only ourselves